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Before choosing flowers, confirm that the recipient can accept them. A MAFF article on flower-gift etiquette in Japan recommends checking whether hospitals or funeral venues accept flowers and confirming when someone will be home for a residential delivery.
1. Ask the venue about its own rules
Hospitals, care facilities, ceremony venues, and workplaces may restrict flowers for hygiene, safety, or storage reasons. Check the venue’s official guidance or contact desk before ordering.
2. Confirm availability for a home delivery
Fresh flowers may not be suitable for unattended delivery. Choose a time that does not burden the recipient. For a surprise, coordinate with a household member or responsible contact when possible.
3. Mention fragrance and pollen concerns
The Japanese MAFF guidance suggests choosing flowers with less intense fragrance and lower pollen as a get-well gift for someone who is ill. If preferences or health circumstances are unknown, explain the setting to the florist and ask for an appropriate option.
4. Make the reason clear with a short card
Add the sender name and a short message. Do not include addresses, phone numbers, health details, or other personal information that is unnecessary for the delivery.
Etiquette varies by country, venue, faith, region, and family. Treat this as Japan-specific guidance and prioritize the recipient’s and venue’s stated wishes.
Related: how to explain the occasion and budget to a florist
Sources: MAFF; MAFF Kanto; MAFF Chugoku-Shikoku
